I have found my first official
grey hair. Yup. I've thought I've seen some before, because my hair is pretty much all the same dark brown color. But after looking more closely, they were not grays, but rather a sun-kissed piece of hair here and there that stood out against the palette of dark brown. However,
this was -
is - indeed
gray. No question about it. Wow. And I have heard from many folks that once it starts, they keep on coming!
Now…. I find myself pondering this age-old phenomenon. It is a contradiction, I must say….
Nobody wants grey hair. In fact, most everyone I know that evidently has greys, does everything necessary to actually hide it, color it, pluck it out, make it disappear, so that you don't even know they have grays!
Okay….so then you regularly hear that gray hairs are the effects of stress….
Of course, we all know that 'gray hair' is often associated with aging and feeling old.
And yet… I recall always hearing that grey is a sign of wisdom.
So….what is it? Is is a nuisance, something to be avoided, hid, and rid of at all costs? Or is it the absolute opposite: something to be praised for, revered, respected, sought after, hoped for, grateful for? Isn't that how we should feel about Wisdom ?
And how about the most perplexing question of all: is it grey or gray ??? Huh??
What confusing creatures we are!
I was curious about what Scripture has to say on the matter. (King James translations for today)
Here's what I found...
The glory of young men is their strength:
and the beauty of old men is the grey head.
~Prov. 20:29
The hoary (meaning: grayish white) head is a crown of glory,
if it be found in the way of righteousness.
~Prov 16:31
And this, from one of the more beautiful sections of Proverbs, describing a Virtuous Woman… it doesn't speak about gray hair, but rather what indeed makes a woman truly wise:
Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain:
but a woman that feareth the Lord,
she shall be praised.
~Prov 31:30
So! Food for thought!
I will say- for now, I am not rushing down the street to Walgreens for any hair dye!!
I'm going to revel in the idea that maybe, just possibly, I might just be a wee bit wiser today than I was yesterday. :)